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Relating Well to Our Adult Children

  One of life’s great joys is watching our children grow into adults. This also brings the challenge of learning how to relate to them once they reach that stage. Parenting adult children is very different from parenting minors. The authority we once held no longer fits the relationship. Some families enjoy close, easy connections characterized by mutual respect and shared faith. Others experience distance, tension, regrets, or unresolved hurt. Many of us go through both. The good news is that Scripture provides a realistic and hopeful framework for navigating these relationships, one rooted in humility, grace, wisdom, and trust in God’s ongoing work. As Paul reminds us: “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” (Romans 12:18, ESV) That verse recognizes both our responsibility and our limits. We can't control outcomes, but we can choose how we show up. From Authority to Influence One of the most significant shifts we encounter is transitionin...